Jennifer Lopez is back on stage after six years with her Up All Night tour, which started in Bilbao, Spain. During her concert, she made headlines by sharing her thoughts on marriage—and they were very clear.
She Reacts Instantly to a Fan’s Proposal
On July 15, while performing in Bilbao, a fan shouted from the audience, “J Lo, marry me?” Lopez didn’t miss a beat. She smiled and replied, “I think I’m done with that.” Her honest response quickly went viral on social media.
Soon after, fans began reacting online. One wrote, “She is soooo real for this,” while another added, “She was funny.” Someone even joked, “Imagine J Lo had said yes and we’d have a Marry Me in real life.”
She Focuses on Herself After Ben Affleck Split
This moment comes as Lopez moves forward after her breakup with actor Ben Affleck. She married Affleck in Las Vegas on July 16, 2022, but filed for divorce on August 20, 2024. The court finalized their divorce in January 2025. Now, she is putting her energy into her music and herself.
Lopez Has Had a Long Relationship History
Lopez has walked down the aisle several times before. In 1997, she married actor Ojani Noa, but they split in 1998. Later, she tied the knot with Cris Judd in 2001; they divorced in 2003. Her third marriage was to singer Marc Anthony in 2004. They had twins, Emme and Max, before separating in 2014.
After that, she dated baseball star Alex Rodriguez from 2017. They got engaged in 2019 but ended the relationship in 2021. Soon after, she reunited with Ben Affleck—whom she was first engaged to from 2002 to 2004—and they married in 2022 before parting ways again.
Jennifer Lopez reacts to a fan asking to marry her:
— Jennifer Lopez Updates (@JLopezUpdate2) July 16, 2025
“I think I’m done with that. I’ve tried that a few times” 😂 pic.twitter.com/zoQqxse0Tl
She Enjoys Her Life Without Dating Pressure
Lopez told the crowd she isn’t looking for love right now. She said she feels happy focusing on herself and her work. “I’m officially so done with marriage,” she said, confirming her current mindset. Meanwhile, her Up All Night tour is still going strong. She will wrap it up with a final show in Sardinia, Italy, on August 12.